So you’ve been practicing your magic. You’ve got your sleights down, your patter is smooth, and your cards are crisp. But there’s just one problem…
How do you actually approach someone to show them a trick?
Whether you're performing at a party, a festival, or just out and about with a deck in your pocket, breaking the ice can be just as important as the trick itself. Here are some fun, friendly ways to approach people—and a few tips to make sure you don’t feel like a weirdo with cards in your hand.
1. Use a Compliment or Observation
Start with something genuine. “Hey, that’s an awesome hat—do you have a minute for something cool?” It’s casual and flattering, and the sudden offer of “something cool” adds curiosity.
2. Lead With a Bet
People love a challenge. Say, “I bet I can guess the card you’re thinking of... and I don’t even need to see it.” Now you’ve made it a game instead of a show.
3. Find Natural Pauses
Don’t interrupt people mid-conversation or while they’re busy. Instead, look for moments where there’s a lull—like when people are standing around waiting for food or drinks, or just chatting casually. That’s the sweet spot.
4. Carry a “Curiosity Object”
Something small and visual—a mysterious haunted key, some interesting old coins, a Rubik’s Cube—can be a silent invitation. Pull it out, start doing something quietly, and people will start watching.
5. Start With Friends (or Friends of Friends)
If you're nervous, perform for someone you know first—but do it near others. As soon as the applause or laughter hits, someone else will say, “Hey, can you show me something?”
6. Be Humble, Not Hype
Instead of saying, “Wanna see something amazing?” try, “I’ve been working on this weird thing—tell me what you think.” People like being part of something casual and interactive.
7. Use a Magic Phrase
Literally. Try something like, “Can I try something strange on you?” or “Would you be willing to help me test something I’ve been working on?” These phrases are open-ended, a little mysterious, and non-threatening.
8. Smile. Be Chill. It’s Magic.
The trick is important—but the vibe is more important. If you’re relaxed, curious, and friendly, people will be too. Magic doesn’t need a stage. Just a willing mind.
One Last Thought
Not everyone will say yes—and that’s okay. You’re not trying to sell them a vacuum. You’re offering a moment of wonder, and some folks just aren’t in the mood. Respect that, smile, and try the next person.
So go on—practice your tricks, yes, but also practice your approach. The real magic is in the moment between “Hi” and “What just happened?!”
Happy conjuring,
Josh
Owner, Magician, and Chief Enabler of Magic Obsessions
Wunderground Magic Shop
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